There is a file called "Server.exe" you have to send that file to the person you are going to be messin with. They have to open that "Server.exe" file before you can connect with them. After they open it, you type in there IP "209.185.144.250" whatever the IP is, ten connect, It will say "connected"". From there on out you are in there computer "the easy way" Never delete any files, and never say that you are hackin them, thats when you can get into a bunch of shit. The smart thing to do is to just not let them know, once they know. They will shutdown the puter, and that means that they would have to reopen the "Server.exe" in order for you to reconnect.